Hundreds of Succesful Stories of Transformation (these are just a few)...
She Waited 62 Years For Love To Feel Like This.
“I’ve never loved anybody more than him— I can’t even tell you. We’re definitely talking about marriage... He already tells everybody, ‘She’s my wife,’ because this is where we are, this is who we are...”
“I was divorced for years, then spent a decade in a relationship that ended badly. Dating after that felt futile, even through some pretty exclusive dating services. I never knew if men were interested in me… or in my job, my money, or the idea of being with a prominent person...”
“The most momentous piece of it was you helping me find my voice and my courage. That allowed me to create healthy boundaries, create open dialogue in a way that wasn’t punitive or vindictive or obstructive.”
“We’re in a very healthy, strong, forward-facing relationship. I just turned 62. He’s 55. And we said, —God willing—we have 20 to 30 good years left on this planet. And we’re gonna make the most of them.”
“He takes care of me. He takes care of my kids. He's thoughtful. He makes sure that we are not in a pattern of being roommates. He's an incredible partner. The only reason I was able to do this was because of the work we did together.”
She Went From Emotionally Unavailable Guys To a Secure and Loving Husband...
“I had never experienced falling more and more genuinely in love, even liking someone more and more the more I got to know them.”
“I kept telling myself that I didn't know what I wanted out of life - when in fact I did. You helped me recognize what I already wanted for myself and be clear about it…”
“And then - see the kind of woman I needed to become not just to meet an amazing man, but also for myself and my life.”
“I've worked with a lot of really good mentors, counselors, and therapists, but you have such a unique gift…”
“I've never experienced as rapid a transformation as when I worked with you.”
How This Fortune 500 Executive Found Lasting Love After Her Divorce...
“He brings me a lot of joy. He's really good at bringing me back from the brink when I'm really wound up.
“We can talk about our faith; we can talk about other things really deeply and meaningfully.”
“Beyond this relationship, this work has really helped me a lot with my relationship with my kids and setting boundaries.”
“Thanks for playing a huge role in helping me transform into the person I am today.”
From Stuck in a Painful Relationship To Finding Her Life Partner & Becoming a Mom.
“My guy has challenged my mind in ways I'd never been challenged before and he supports me emotionally in ways that I didn't feel were possible from a man.”
“On that very first call with you, I felt so held and supported, and felt this level of certainty and confidence from you that I didn't have in myself.”
“It was like I knew that it was possible; I knew that there were things that I could Do.”
“I'm a coach and work with women, and a lot of women I hear say things, like: I hate this whole dating thing, But You made dating so easy to master—you just broke it down, and it became fun!”
“One of the stories I'd always told myself was that I would never find a conscious, spiritual man. But through working with you, I was able to attract men who were conscious, spiritual, and on a path of growth.”
At 65, After Divorce and Cancer - She Finally Found Love on a Tandem Bike Ride.
“I always thought, I’ll never have a second chance at true love, because I’m too old or whatever. But now, it’s way better. Because you don’t have all the hangups and the drama... I feel like I’m just beginning...”
“I was 60 years plus… divorced after 28 years, going through breast cancer, trying to date, chasing, then running away, then settling for way less than what I knew I deserved. I was in a downward spiral.”
“From the moment I met him, I felt calm. I didn’t even know what you meant by safety back then—now I do. Everything about him brings out the best in me.”
“I never thought I was capable of change. I would resist and just say no. But it’s not that hard. And then when the guy says—like today—‘My purpose in life is to keep you happy’… I’m like, wow.”
From Ready To Give Up on Love To Finding Her Best Friend and Husband.
“I feel that I can express myself, and he loves it. Before him, I couldn't do it because I felt that it was detrimental to the relationship, but now I fully express myself and feel loved and respected. It's amazing.”
“Now everyone around me says: Pame, you look so radiant.”
“When I travel, I travel with him. I work with people with whom I deeply connect because you showed me a way to connect with people in an authentic, heart-centered way.”
“Bern, aside from getting married, working with you has been the best decision of my life.”
From a Passionless Situationship To a Deeply Passionate Marriage & Integrating Families.
“He's the most amazing combination of man in the best possible sense of the word in the way that he protects me and the way that he is attentive and caring.”
“He's also so communicative and expressive with me and so just right in lock-step with me, and that's been an amazing aspect of our relationship from day one.”
“Both of us have noticed the overflow in our home lives for our respective kids. It's like a magnet, Bern. They just want to be around it and soak it up.”
“Bern, I didn't even know that men like him existed...”
From Grief And Devastating Loss To Finding Devotional Love Again...
“Now that I've found this amazing love with my husband and we have the opportunity to bring a beautiful baby girl into this world, there truly aren't words.”
“We're so excited. I feel even more love within me and surrounding me. I truly am in the midst of a miracle.”
“Bern, You opened up my heart when I thought it was closed forever. I thought that I was a shell of a person, and you cracked that open and exposed a whole new world of possibility to me.”
“It was beyond me. It was tapping into the power of the heart, the power of love, that I didn't even know that I still possessed.”
“I know that I wouldn't be here without your guidance, so thanks for that and for sharing your heart and your motivation...”
From Passive Boyfriend To Committed Husband.
“This is beyond my wildest dreams… When I started working with you, I wasn't even thinking this would be possible, but I am living it now, so it's pretty magical.”
“As a man, he's grown so much, and it's been such an honor and a privilege to witness this. And I've also grown with him, evolving as a couple.”
“Each time we reach a milestone, our relationship gets deeper. He’s such a great father. He's so dedicated and so loving.”
“When I decided to work with you, I’d just immigrated to the United States (from Japan) and wasn’t making much money, but this work was an investment I wanted to make.”
“...And I'm so glad I did it because I've grown so much, and now I'm living the life that I thought was not possible but really craved.”
From Disappointed in Men To The Wedding of Her Dreams.
“He's the most wonderful, kind, caring, hardworking, motivated, giving, funny—really funny, makes me laugh all the time. He's a great cook and very family-oriented.”
“I feel like I can be a hundred percent myself with him.”
“The biggest breakthrough in our work was getting my confidence back and having the courage to say 'no' to those guys I had the gut feeling weren't the right ones..”
“Now I understand why God made me wait so long.”
She Was 5 Minutes Away From Giving Up on Men & a Family And Then THIS Happened...
“He really is somebody who's walking next to me. He's sweet, and he's kind, a gentleman, and he's so supportive...”
“When I first reached out to you, I'd just had a breakup, and I was feeling sick to my stomach. I was feeling tired. I was giving up, totally. I was tired of getting bullshit as partners. I didn't want that anymore...”
“He helps me relax and calm down, reminding me it doesn't have to be perfect. He reminds me, It's okay, honey. It's like that. I love him. I'm just happy—really happy—and I feel blessed...”
“This work is a powerful change you must make for yourself. It might be scary, but it's really worth it. And it's not only because you'll find the man in the end...”
“It's the whole process of becoming stronger, healthier, more lovable, more kind, feminine, empowered; all of those things that we tend to lose on the way, or maybe through a broken marriage.”
From Numbness After Divorce To Reclaiming Her Femininity and Getting Married...
“He's a wonderful man. A man I might not have gone for if I hadn't been working with you because he scared me. He's very strong, he's very direct, and he's like a high-power executive working in marketing for a big organization.”
“I'm always turning back towards myself now and looking at my values and the ways I can focus on my aliveness and vibrancy rather than focusing on him or how I can please him, which is what I used to do.”
“I had a story in my head that this was going to take years for me to create that kind of intimacy again where I might feel safe to think about having a family...”
“And it was all a bullshit story that I just needed to pass through.”
